Congratulations HD! The EC discussion you had with your W is interesting. Why don't you say this to her "I know that sex doesn't increase your EC to me, but since you know that having sex does increase my EC to you, I wonder why you don't want to please me more often. Wouldn't it make you feel good to give me the sex as a gift of love?"
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
