Azure, I feel as though I know you a bit, too! In fact, many of us who cross-post on each other's threads are like old friends to me. It amazes me, this community.
Quote: He put forth the idea that so much more of our problems were due to him, and that he had "tried and convicted" me without ever giving me a chance to address our issues or try anything different. I don't know where this leaves us, but it is good to be talking more honestly about what went wrong.
Well, I think it shows that your H has his soul intact after the abduction after all. This could be very productive. Can you put your finger on what, exactly, you have been doing to remove that banner, and what in your behavior, specifically, has triggered your H to be more open to these sorts of talks?
