SO hard to respond to the latest information beyond telling you that you can count me in for either shoulder and/or other ways of friendship and support.
I am reluctant to comment in any way that might either bring up false hope or draw you back into thinking that he is coming around...and I also cannot say for sure what any of his messages mean.
But moving towards self is ALWAYS a good thing to do since that is truly the direction all of us must travel.
