Hi Azure!!!

I don't have much to report on my post, but I couldn't resist checking yours while I was passing by my old stomping grounds!

IMHO, your H still cares about your feelings. I am surprised at how honest his email to you was! I think you were just as honest in your response ~ good for you!

I still VIVIDLY remember the day I found out ex had a GF. It was well past the D being final, and I know she didn't "break up our M" but it still hurt. I am now so detached that it no longer hurts when I hear stories about him and the GF. He doesn't really talk about her to me but is still trying to "be friends" with me in an odd way.

I am with you....how much contact and how much friendship is appropriate at this point?? I guess time will tell!

You sound good, dear Azure. I am not here much, but feel free to email me at MsSunseeker@aol.com!

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)