Well, that did knock me off my pins for a while. It was way too flashback-style reminiscent of "Ex-OW has such compassion for you because she's been through the same thing." [Do you know what I mean? That "compassion" from her was something I never felt.] But I am not into being this person of drama and sadness anymore. I had my big cry for the day. On the other hand, I am also not up for the scenario you proposed, at least at this time. This has all been a lot of hard work for me, but I'm proud of the work that I've done.

I don't know what I'm up for, really, except to continue re-writing my script for life.

Yes, the wedding was very hard in some ways. But they are a couple of people I really love.