Wow - this all sounds really good for you. It is amazing that we had to go through such painfully horrible events to get to where we are now - but we honestly are stronger, better and hopefully someday happier individuals. You possess a strength and power that is not easy to come by and I truly respect and admire you.
I'm glad that you are doing so much for YOU! I feel that I'm doing the same. I'm behind you on the journey but I'm trying to keep neck-n-neck.