A dear friend of mine has a vision of me as an older woman helping younger women deal with pain like this. He didn't mention if the vision included my H, but oh well, I'm sure he's right on the first part. What doesn't kill us helps us to grow, and to give back (eventually....oh boy, do I owe karma points for all the hours my friends have given to hearing me drone on and on and on ).
Glad you are able to talk with your MIL, despite the pain. Mine is definitely working to stay in contact.
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