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Of course it was a day or mixed feelings and strong emotions, but I am so amazed with myself that I survived this year! Yay, ME.


Yay, YOU is right!!!!!

As time passes, it really does get easier. the second anniv. of the day I asked H to move out is in Spet (it would also have been my tenth wedding anniv. ). I have realized how far I have come in that time. In fact, I just wrote about it in my thread.

Pretty soon you will look back to last year and realize you are in a better place now and that there is no way you would want to go back to those feelings!!

I am SO GLAD the papers aren't arriving near your birthday! Hope you have fun plans to celebrate your special day!!!

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)