My last thread Not sure how long I'll be in the Piecing section, unless just about piecing myself, but oddly enough, our D has been delayed because H forgot to sign some paperwork and send it to me back in April. He did mention it then, but it was when I had just found out my dad had gone into the final stage of his cancer, and 10 days before I left for Massachusetts for his passing, and the memorial service. I agreed (at that time) on a time to meet to do it (I see from my emails with him) but it never got done. Once I get it and sign it, it will be another 3 weeks - 3 months. H was really p*ssed at me and the mediator, I think, saying he never got those papers, until I found his email from April saying he had them & me agreeing to sign them. H says now he "needs some distance and time from trying to be friends" but that "this isn't permanent." Can I just tell you how tired I am of the sadness and madness... I ache for H recovering from his brother's suicide, but it just seems like we do each need a break to grieve our individual losses, which have been profound in this year.
Yesterday was the anniversary of the BOMB. Whoa. Of course it was a day or mixed feelings and strong emotions, but I am so amazed with myself that I survived this year! Yay, ME.
PS I have to say that I'm relieved that the D papers won't be arriving on my BIRTHDAY, as they were supposed to (ten more days).
