I know what you mean. I want to think of her, but I know she is 'limited' in her abilty to experience. But she wasn't always. She used to be adventurous. It is hard to think of her in erotic ways and not want her. Also the block shows up, the negative imagery - she'll never do this.
PLease let me know how you get past it. I want her not someone else.
There are 3 sides to every situation: yours, mine and the truth. Knowing the difference is the key.
