I have been trying to DB the best I can and act "as if" My H has been telling me all along that the only reason he wants to leave me is bec. he cannot forgive me for an affair I had 6 years ago, when he found out 2 years ago he said he forgave me but now all of a sudden 4 weeks ago he changed his mind, I know that there is more to it and if you are familiar with my story then there is plenty proof of that, but today my husband actually called me at work and told me that he was going to try and forgive me for what I did, he did not know how or if it would work but he was going to try,he realized that it is not good to be carrying that around with him, I almost fell off my chair, he has been telling me for a month that he cannot and will not forgive someone who cheated on him period and he did not know if he even wanted to be with me anymore and he did not love me anymore. Wht a 180 that was for him, maybe the DBing, counseling and his depression meds are starting towork, please keep praying for me, I hope he truly means this!! Any words on what to do now, I don't want to blow this
