first alot of people are going to tell you it sounds like an mlc and sure from a glance it does but I woulnd't jump into that basket just yet.
So you had an a kept it hidden (did h know of the ea part?) h then confronts you, you fess up he's struggling, your struggling and all hell seems to have broken loose.
You're not going to find any magic bullet to fix it all..it's going to take a lot of hard work, patience and faith and even then things might not change.
For now I would simply be there for him and allow him the space he needs to figure things out.
