Quote: Even though your H hasn't said that he doesn't want to sleep with you because you don't clean house, this may be what he's telling himself as a way to rationalize his behavior.
That's exactly what I'm beginning to realize myself :-)
Quote: (It's kind of interesting that the word "slut" also means slovenly woman.
That is kind of interesting isn't it? The thing that irked me when his C told me that I would need to make more of an effort in the cleaning area is that I thought I already was...I just need to redouble the effort :-) & Don't worry, I don't take your "slut" comment in a bad way. There's something I like to say to my hubby every now and then that makes him laugh...and I think I'm going to embroider it on a pillow LOL.
"A woman knows when to be a lady, when to be a girl, and when to be a whore....and the appropriate situation for each." Just something I made up a long, long, looong time ago LOL.
