GEL said: --------------- I know I may be lambasted for trying this approach by many people...but if it works and I'm able to identify where I'm not meeting his needs/expectations then I feel I'll be making some progress. ---------------
You go girl!
Whether or not it results in success, it will increase your chances. What you are doing is sending hubby a clear message. "There's some big changes headed this way buster. You'd better hitch up your wagon an get on the trail, cause change is a coming!"
It may be non-verbal communication, but communication it is, and communication is what it takes to start solving the issues.
Hang in there! -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
