Dave, I wanted to also apologize to you for not 'getting' what you were saying the other day about the EC and your new outlook on it. Today I posted an almost identical post to the one you wrote from a few weeks ago, noting that you have a hard time keeping the EC in the absence of sex. I replied that the EC is not a problem for us, blah blah.
You know, it is a subtle difference in our situations..from how you were describing it but I wasn't seeing that the core issue is the same.