hopefulhub wrote: --------------------- So tonight I decided to try and initiate sex (she had just come home from happy hour) ---------------------
Why was she at happy hour without you?
Quote: ------------------- Two months ago my wife came home from work and told me....."I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you"..... -------------------
This is affair speak. It doesn't absolutely mean she is having an affair, but that statement is heard frequently by betrayed spouses.
I would encourage you not to panic, but quietly and without your spouse knowing about it, check up on her. There are some other good threads on this systems about affairs.
I hope I am wrong about this. In fact, I usually am wrong about affairs, but I felt I should speak up anyway.
If she is not having an affair, then both of you need to read TSSM asap. Secondly, regardless of what she says, you are NOT meeting all her needs and you are not the perfect husband.
Since you are here, you get to change first.
Please keep us posted! -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
