Actually, you answered the question...it's not really a power play at all. He sounds like he should have been thrilled that you were taking care of everything. It's nice to have joint plans and preparations sometimes, but it's also nice to do something special for your mate (or have them do something special for you.)

I love your message to him. That took some ovaries.

Hairdog - 30 minutes away from a fun-packed weekend with W!!!!