Now he is writing me, telling me that my original date plan is fine with him. Duh, I have already cancelled it. Why does he think arranging a date (a cheap and creative one, at that!) and childcare is easy and something I can pull out of my a$$ at a moments notice, or when he finally decides that he's being a nitwit??
I know he is agreeing to my idea simply because he does not want me to be mad, as opposed to any real change of heart concerning D2's safety. Mojo I agree with you...us HDW's get the frickin shaft. My BIL is taking my sister in law (H's LD sister) on a beach vacation over Labor day weekend and wining and dining her. He is THAT desperate for sex with her. He still looks at it as this holy grail type thing...if only I can prove THIS to her, she will open up to me. If only I can show her via romancing her with a beach trip, THEN she will open up to me. IT IS HOGWASH!!!!!!!
Here I am, fat and sassy, and trying to think of ways to spend time with my H and he shoots it down with the air of a king who wouldn't lower himself to entertain such a notion..and...and.........he's just a nitwit, okay!
Some people are so negative and fussbudget-y that even the mere thought of the unknown (sending kids to a different place) sends him into a tizzy. Boy, I could understand it if we regularly left our kids but we don't. He has not taken me on a date so far this year. I am willing to do the legwork in planning dates but then King Nitwit is going to have to step off and let me handle it.
I need some romance! Someone to treat me special! Someone to jump my bones once in a blue moon! I can't do everything all by myself! (well actually I can, but how sucky is that, am I right Mojo)
