This is why life sux for us HDW. We have to do all the "relationship" work because we are women and we have to do all the "seduction" work because we are HD. I sometimes really wonder if I wouldn't be better off most evenings with a good book, a cuddly pet and a vibrator than my H's company.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver