Solid, I have to tell you that almost all of your posts crack me up. I love a man with a good sense of humor!
You had me rollin with the "Gomer" bit and I have to tell you that my H would crack up laughing if I actually said that and he would be joining in, poking fun at himself. He is aware of how he sometimes comes off to me and knows the weird dichotomy that exists between the confident God-fearing MAN that he is to others and the tail between his legs wussy that he can be in bed.
I would liken it to this: A lot of LD wives are absolutely terrified to initiate. They are petrified of being rejected. Now............what are the odds that they would ever be rejected??? How many TIMES have they been told that it will never happen and that it would make their H's day? And yet that fear is a hard one to overcome.
It is really no different with the LD husbands, even in spite of the rest of his personality.