Quote: You know, this raises an interesting question in my head: is my W LD and not initiating because she's seeing her body/appearance as undesirable? If so, and I initiate sex with her, is she seeing this LM as a mercy f*ck type of thing? Tooo many questions! Hmmmm.
I think poor body self image is a crucial desire killer. I don't think a person can be comfortable having sex if they aren't comfortable with their bodies. It is why, for me, the tipping point between tolerating marital celebacy and no longer tolerating it was losing weight. I know poor body image is a serious problem for my LDW, even though she is absolutely beautiful.
I'm going to bed now and dream of fondling her wonderful buttocks.
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
