Choc, I guess the parting company comment was in reference to the fact that some HDW's will get all stubborn and weird and refuse sex if the initiation sucks rotten eggs. Most HDH's will take the initiation and say, "Oh she's a woman she doesn't initiate well but I know what she means when she moves her leg like that and I'm gonna jump on the opportunity."
I suppose what I am saying is that HDW's appear to be much more likely to refuse mercy sex than the fellas. Probably because we as women have been received the message from birth that part of a woman's inherent worth is her desirability. This is specifically related to her femininity, her appearance, etc, and I don't know that the HD men can relate.
Or can you? Do the guys think, "I guess I am just not handsome enough.." and all other sorts of ridiculous thoughts when being rejected? I think it would be easier to take if society was telling you to not take it personally that women just don't want sex as much, etc. The message we women receive is that OF COURSE it is something personal..no man in his right mind would turn down a passionate woman who wants sex 3 times a week. Which is what my H told me last night..that yes a lot of guys would do just that. I argued the point and he replied, "Well if you want a guy who spends all his spare time at a bar and comes home and beats you...BUT...he will fulfill all your sexual desires, then I guess that is your prerogative." Funny how he relates giving in to sexual desire with being a gluttonous and abusive jerkoff. For the record, I know he was just spouting off crap b/c the convo was getting heated, but I think there is a grain of truth in that statement also.
Ok, now I'm way off topic. Can you tell that I am nervous??!
