I have been watching your thread and found it very helpful and humorous at times. maybe what i am going to say is more for me than you, but here it goes.
If he is asking the questions and asking you for a date, then it seems that he is paying attention to the M. It may not be exactly what you want, but it is the little things that count isn't it? I know that I don't pay enough attention to the little things my W does because it is not what I want - passionate, wild S. But she is trying to connect.
Just an outsider looking in.
There are 3 sides to every situation: yours, mine and the truth. Knowing the difference is the key.
