Quote: Someone advised me a while back (can't remember who) to try the softness and let him be my hero and see what happens. I said that I so seldom feel like this that I didn't think it would be a workable thing to try. Plus, it is not being genuine to who I really am.
This is kind of related to my feeling that my H likes me better when I'm ditzy. It also relates to what I meant when I said I looked more sexy than pretty. In my case, this really is something genetic, not any attitude I convey. Most of my features are very feminine. I have big eyes, full lips, large breasts, defined waistline, plenty of booty etc., but a few of my features like my height, shoulder breadth, nose and brow give me a tougher more masculine look. I know I'm attractive, but you would never cast me as the pretty princess or the cute cheerleader. I'm more the warrior queen type. This is why I have trouble trying to dress myself. For instance, I can't wear any sort of high-heeled boots because I think they make me look like a dominatrix. I can't imagine any guy having a fantasy about being my hero and coming to my rescue.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
