In my youth I dated a guy who was not very attractive, physically. He was shorter, glasses, just kind of a less than average looking guy. BUT he took great pains to dress well, was articulate, smart, funny, a charming companion. He could make a woman weak in the knees because he was very confident, not in a cocky way, but just quiet confidence, and he was dynamic in bed..
He gave what was inside of him, NOT relying on an attractive exterior, because he just was not good looking at all. He always had a date because of his generous soul and compassion which more physically attractive guys, but real jerks, too, could not understand. He made you feel like you were the most cherished person on the planet when you were with him, going out of his way to please you in many different ways.
If you met him, you might not have a favorable impression of him because of his appearance. If you got to know him, you would know that he was a very sexy guy and would make you feel sexy too.
I've always wondered what happenned to him, wondering if he ever had plastic surgery or decided that he did not need to have the exterior match his interior.
He could really dance. The moves on the dance floor made people take notice and this was in the 70's during the disco era.... He guided you around the floor as if you were the only couple out there.
