You are the definition of sexy. Sexy isn’t something you do any more than it’s the way you look; it’s the way you are. Looks help, but it’s attitude that really counts. Actions are good too, but they’re a side-effect of the attitude. Sexy is hard to define, because any single thing I would normally consider sexy becomes decidedly UNsexy when carried too far. Confidence, humor (especially a dirty mind), being comfortable with your sexuality – those are sexy. Overconfidence can become a turn off. Too dirty a mind becomes tiresome.
Being comfortable with your sexuality is a little harder. You can never be too comfortable with your own sexuality, but the way(s) you express it can be too much. Your laughing at innuendos and jokes is good. Taking it a little further is good. Taking it too far isn’t. Always injecting innuendos into convos isn’t. Dressing to accentuate your assets is good. Flaunting them isn’t. Being able to say, “F*ck me” when that’s what you want is very good. Saying that every time makes it seem mechanical. Being comfortable in your skin goes a long way.
It doesn’t feel like I’m doing very good at this, but it’s the best I can come up with on the spur of the moment. All I can say is that if the persona you project here is the real you – you’ve got sexy down pat.
