Quote: Maybe multi-colored flags is the answer here. You can each have a set. Red means "No chance in hell, so don't even think about it". Green means "I am frisky, so look out". Yellow means "Maybe, maybe". Purple means "I am not in the mood, but if you are, lets go for it".
I think maybe the flag thing was part of my H's problem with my previously nonsexy wardrobe. He thought I was giving him mixed messages by waving a red flag with my clothing, but a green flag otherwise. Of course, now that I'm waving a green flag with my clothing, he doesn't want me to leave the house in case other guys think I'm waving it at them. I told him this weekend that if he wants to go to the mall and buy me some clothes that are just the perfect mix of attractive yet not sexy, I would be happy to wear them, but I am just not that talented style-wise. I told him that I am the sort of attractive woman who is more sexy than pretty, so it's not that easy. He said that as far as men are concerned pretty and sexy are the same thing. I really would like to know if this is true or just some sort of LD semantics.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
