Hang in there girl! I know you're going through a really tough time right now. Remember how close you are to the end of your pregnancy you've got so much to look forward to. Keep in mind too...and I don't mean this to offend you...that some men truly don't want to ML with their W during their 3rd trimester....mind didn't. Of course look at our track record LOL...it's not like we boink like bunnies anyway. But he really did feel uncomfortable doing that the closer I got to term.
With him it wasn't even that I was unattractive to him...it was more that he was very self-concious about that extra person involved. It's not that he thought he'd hurt the baby, or that he was afraid the baby would see anything...it was merely the fact that the baby was there and very active in our case. So try not to take it so personally, I know the raging hormones aren't helping one little bit on that end but try to keep it in perspective.
And remember the harder you try to get him to ML the harder he may resist. This may be one of those times you just have to ride-it-out until the end of your pregnancy and then try again.
Sorry I wasn't more encouraging for you....but I really do sympathize with your sitch. BIG HUGS TO YOU!!!!