Quote: I don't know if it is due to the preg or some freaky dynamics we have going on so I will wait out the preg and postpartum period and hope for the best.
One thing that disappoints me about my life is that I never had the chance to have sex with a pregnant woman . Actually, there was a good article in Salon that you might enjoy. I envy your H.
Quote: H is very optimistic that the birth of the baby will be wonderful for us, sexually, so that is what I have to do..trust that this will happen, as it did after D2's birth.
I don't know, he could be missing the boat, considering the way hormones fluctuate between pre and post-partum. I've heard that lots of women lose their libido after birth. Better to strike while the iron is hot. Otherwise he could be stuck as the HD spouse. Now wouldn't that be ironic?
Quote: He did say the other night that his desire for me pre-preg was a 10 and now it is a 7. So the pregnancy really does affect his desire; it is not in my imagination! AND, I'll bet you dollars to donuts that he was being generous with that 7 and trying to avoid a wife who cried rivers of tears because he said a 4. LOL
Is it grade inflation, or just grading on a curve?
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
. Actually, there was a good article in 
