If all those great qualities met your basic needs, then you wouldn't be here.
The fact is simple. Sex is an important part of your construction. That is just the way it is. Analyze any way you want. Give it fancy names and technical terms if you like. Regardless, it is a basic need for you.
It is the same for me. My wife is a wonderful woman with many great qualities. I need the sex. She really doesn't. I now try my best to meet her counterpart needs. She tries to meet mine. That is called a relationship.
Get with your hubby and make a plan to meet your needs.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.