Well, TiredOne, I think that if you are having a reasonable request then you should voice it. If ya know you are being a psycho and asking for too much, then yeah you should shut da yap.
That was what I was saying in my original post. I don't WANT to do these things but the next part I said (I want you to just drool because I'm your wife), well, that's just hogwash. I shoulda kept it to myself but, man, I was spewing all kinds of crap yesterday. I even was rude to my FIL and that is one thing you will almost never catch me being--outright rude. I just had no patience and by the time bedtime rolled around I was crabby and wanting H to be my salve and smooth over my hormones, my displaced sense of self due to being fat and pg, ease my horniness...man I wanted him to do it all and be it all for me last night. I knew I was out of line but I was too far gone in my mood to get it reeled back in. Today is another day, though, and you won't hear me whining about this same shtuff tomorrow.
