It may NOT be reasonable, but you feel it. Am not sure that you should try to turn off those feelings, because IMHO you have a right to be desired by your S. I am just a beginner in the PM journey - if you couldn't tell
I should quit before I get in to trouble. But, I think that while your feelings are real and should not be devalued you also need to learn to not expect your S to see the value in your feelings all the time. Feelings, by thier nature, are very personal. And while your S is the one who you are supposed to depend on (by the old veiw of M) for emotional support and a little validation, you are the only person who can really give that support and validation. Now someone please tell me I am wrong because now I feel even more lonely. Or tell me how to properly sythesize my thoughts so that I can give up on my percieved need for outside validation.
I will now get off my soap box and stop preaching to myself! I hope I listen to me and I thank you all for your consideration in letting me ramble on.
Jeff
"As soon as somebody falls in love, all the wits seem to dribble out the bottom of his head." Garion from Castle of Wizardry. And Jeff is obviously in love.
