I know that your post wasn’t directed to me, but I’m going to reply anyway.
Quote: So when you get home, you are no longer crabby?
Going out for a motorcycle ride does help with the symptoms of lack of sex. A good day at the shooting range can do it as well. I guess it’s just sublimating the sex drive, but it does seem to work. It’s not a cure, but it can help to alleviate the symptoms.
Quote: …quite frankly, his presence annoys me when he is not meeting my needs
I have that problem too. I think that accounts for the crabbiness – I’m annoyed at W, so I respond by being crabby. That’s not all of it. As the wise HP once said, “After all, it is not mental crabbiness...well it is...but it is also a physical reaction to no bodily release.”
I’m just not to the point where we can talk about this. I’ve mentioned multiple times that I got my courage all screwed up for “the talk” and W just spontaneously started ML somewhere around once a week. I’ve suppressed my urge to try to find out why, so I/we haven’t talked about it at all. I really want to, but I just haven’t figured out how.
