Quote: If she were to become physically unable to ML, would the feelings of being loved or feeling important to her vanish?
I have thought about this one many times. If my own wife were physically disabled, I would be very compassionate under those circumstances. However, she is not, and therefore her lack of desire is a personal choice, and therefore I feel anger instead of compassion. Most of the books I have read say that desire for women is mostly a headgame, the desire does not come from hormones like it does for men. So desire is mostly a decision and not necessarily a physical ailment.
