Hi dfb, thanks, and yeah, I think you're right, the best thing to do when he gets really weird and irritable is to just leave him alone. That in it's self is a 180 for me, and I just don't need the emotional upheaval of dealing with his turmoil right now (got enough of my own, thank you!) plus it's worth 2 cents anyway to see him standing there looking confused when I just walk away.
I've got a lot of morphing left to do, but have you seen the commercial with the 50 year old woman saying she has a "bowflex body"???? If I ever got there, I'd be REAL REAL happy (I think I'd still have to buy a boob job, though) ah, well, I guess I can dream.
