Oh, I was going to mention I've been checking out another website, I know that seems almost sacreligous, but this one is more specific to affairs/infidelity, and has some good articles. He talks about needing to "dig in the dirt", and I guess that's what I've been doing in my thinking today. Anyway, here's the website/one article if anyones interested: http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/articles/trust_building.htm
