Looking at things from this perspective helps me to see that it must be a huge leap for H to completely let go of OW....
On the other side, I see that I must focus on the things that I need to have in my life to be able to have anything to give him. I was also lonely and miserable, I just dealt with it differently. I can't live like that anymore.
I do still love him hugely, and I guess that makes me feel incredibly sad that things ever got to this point between us.
