Hi slowly, I read through your sitch, and it sounds so much like things are almost to home base for you....I'm so glad. One commend you posted really hit home, and that was about the new house helping keep your H's mind off OW....I think you're right, and I've been thinking for a long time that my H needs something to help him break the habit of OW....his new weight room, in particular. We had decided that we were going to wait to get the equipment until we got a major-league amount of stuff removed (D still has BOXES of stuff there) but I'm thinking we should "just do it" with the weights....I even asked H yesterday if he wanted to wait, and he said "maybe I dont, because that's going to take a while"...so that makes me wonder, or at least think I'm on the right track that it would be a helpful thing.