Hi Pamila, thanks for the verse. I've started carrying a new testament in my purse and take it out and read sometimes, I find it interesting that there's always some comfort there for me. That's never failed.
I guess my scenario is that either a)there is no workshop and he's just down there spending the day with her, or b) there is one and she went to it with him...I don't know, maybe it doesnt matter....after all, he can only continue to idealize her if he doesnt have to come face to face with her very real "not so great" side, and the only way he will have to come face to face with it is to be with her. I think she puts a lot of pressure on him anymore.
I've tried to make a point of living what I told him, that I love him enough to let him go, so i have and am working really hard to stay backed off and out of it, although I'm sure my depraved rantings here wouldnt indicate that.
How are things for you? I need to check out your sitch....This weird all over the place stuff is hard to live with, isn't it?
