Quote: H was on the phone w/OW for about an hour, just mumbling, other than S heard him say "Well Yeah" and the become quite angry and then "sad and angry" as S put it.
Quote: I told him I was having a hard time not feeling insecure, and he said "you don't have any reason to"...
Sounds like she is bugging him, so I want you to do the opposite. Get out your best Act As IF, quit ASSuming, be as cheerful and smiling and full of joy as you possibly can when he comes home tonight (and everynight). I found that playing a good, upbeat CD before my H came home (Best of Tom Petty worked for me) helped me get my mood together.
After a day of dealing with OWs melodrama, you will seem like a fresh breeze