Hi Slowly and dfb, yep, I know you're right, I need to just ignore it all and focus on the important stuff...me, making my life better, S, etc.. Actually I do at times, I just have a bad habit of losing it when I see "HER"....only good thing is, I think she looks worse from all this, and I'm looking better (now of course, that has to be totally unbiased opinion, right?) Actually H did respond to the email a little later.