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Ok, according to the computer, he read the email about 5 minutes ago, although he hasnt responded. So if she was in his office, he would have read it in front of her....it mentioned having pinkish-neck thoughts, let her read over his shoulder and ask him to explain that one.




Deb, please stop obsessing over every little detail! You are going to make yourself crazy. You don't know if she was there, you don't know if he's had time to respond, or if he is even going to.

As the last poster said, you REALLY need to drop the rope. You need to focus on yourself, not on him - and you keep focusing more and more on him and every detail of everything that is going on, as well as assuming what he means by everything.

It isn't fun to be obsessing over details, so go about your business and do things for you! YOU are the one that deserves the attention!!!!