Hi Deb - Sweetie - please calm down, drop the rope a little. Sometimes I found myself obsessing about why NG had not responded to an email, or why he had not called, when really I should have been staying focused on what we would be doing in the evening. Well, NG had planned a nice dinner out, and I was grumpy because he had not returned a call within 5 mins - how sad for me... I want you to not go down that path. Sure, H may be taking his time weaning off OW, but I feel fairly confident he is yours. Now go make yourself even more irresistable
