Hi BnB, it's so good to hear from you. I've been thinking of you. Your comment about old boyfriends that you could count on as friends kind of struck me. Both of these guys I've ran into lately I could count on that way (I do get the feeling their wives might not think I should) but maybe they showed up so that I could get some type of info or something from them....or even the encouragement of talking to them. hmmmmm There goes my analytical mind again! Ha!
As far as the overanalyzing, I know you are exactly right...I need to keep reminding myself to be cautious about that.