Hi Pam....yeah, the old boyfriend stuff is kind of a boost when we need one isn't it? I just think it's so weird that they turn up at this time. BnB posted about it happening to her also. Obviously, they still have a "soft spot" for me, and that means a lot, they were special guys in my life. Now, I have to say there were people I dated that I NEVER want to lay eyes on again, who creep me out...but they aren't the ones showing up. There's one more, the "biggie" I was engaged to, if he shows up here in the next few months, I'll have to consider that there's some message here for me.
I did have an interesting thought last night. I remember around the time of H's birthday in March we were having an unpleasant discussion about our R and "The MEss" and H made the comment that "you never could get along with anyone, even your old boyfriends"....that kind of hurt and shocked me, I remember saying "yes I did, except for one and that was because he cheated on me" , and I started to cry. Then H said "well, why didnt you marry one of them?" and I said because I didnt love them enough", and I remember H looking really uncomfortable. So, at least H has seen that I did have a good relationship with these guys years ago, it's not just my "bad personality"....
Pam, I gotta get over to your thread...It is so weird for you H to turn so "strange" all at once. It's like he really dashed back into the tunnel, isn't it? talk about a 2nd adolescence.
