I do not know why you have run into those old boyfriends but I think it helps sort of ease our H's conscience's when they think that there is even the smallest possbility that we might have done or thought something naughty.
I think it makes them feel better to think that we could possbily sink as low as they have, like maybe talking to your old bf would send you down the road to having an A with them. Then that would take some of that infernal presure of them for having to clean up their mess and give us a mess of our own to clean up. FAT CHANCE, I SAY.
My C has commented to me how my H is living in a highly sexualized word right now. Starting with his A and going right down to his adolescent type behavior.
they try to take the pressure off themselves and put it on us, but I ain't going for that bait.
