Hi wishingtoheal...I know you and dfb are both absolutely right about keeping son out of the middle of things as much as possible, for his sake and other reasons. Not a good place for a kid to be stuck at all. I have to admit I was so irritated about the lotion though that it was "oh what the heck" and I just "did it". It's encouraging to know you see positives in my sitch. Some days I feel like a lot of progress has been made, and others I have a really hard time seeing it. slowly, slowly, slowly slowly I guess...one teeny tiny inching step at a time.
