Hi Pam, I don't know if it's any consolation, and I'm never sure what to make of it, but my H is exactly the same, as far as the "presto chango" routine. That is a big part of what makes me so nuts in this mess. I mean, how does a person handle it when one day your H is telling you he's realized you are the one he loves and he cant' imagine a life with out you and would never give up your home/life together, and how great your M is going to be and how hard he's going to work on it, and kissing your hands and asking you to hold him and then, 2 days later, he's cool and distant and you know he's "back" with ?????????????? I mean, WTF, how is a person supposed to know how to react????????? and keep their own sanity and wits about them. beats me. All I know is that it is incredibly hard.
I did a very poor job of being a mature parent, as I actually sabotaged the bottle of lotion in front of my son, standing at the kitchen sink and talking to him as I did it. Guess they'll probably withdraw my nomination for "mother of the year" over that one, huh? Interesting though, the scent of cherry/almond lotion makes me want to throw up anymore....I used to like it. which reminds me, I gotta pick up a bottle of white glue for the other lotion bottle. Do you suppose phone sex works well with Elmers Glue rubbed on your private parts?
