Hi dfb, I know, it is so weird....it's like the exact opposite of where he was about 3 months ago. Then he was complaining about too much sex, that it was insulting that I thought all he was interested in was sex...I know just about when this was, it would have been about mid-march, just after his birthday, because I gave him a birthday card that said something about "nice butt", and we had a fight the next week and he got furious and threw the card at me....weird weird weird......one thing for sure, he's never boring because he may be totally different one minute than he was the one before....but it is fun right now, and I do have lots of fun ideas to pursue, slowly and in the right time - hehehehehe! I guess I'm thinking he's going to be around for me to get to pursue them! I hope that's right!