Hi Slowly, and all...thanks, I need to get over to "your place" and see whats up with you....things are so incredibly weird with H, he is just all over the place right now....I'll post a little about that separately in a minute... So you feel your H has emotionally disconnected from OW even though he continues to be in contact/involved with her? I hadnt considered that possibility....I believe you must be right about the pride, guilt, aspect however....I am trying to maintain some dignity and aplomb in this mess (of course, that's why I sabotage lotion, right?)ah, well...I notice things are so up and down and all over the place her on the bb for a lot of folks right now..... I have eased off the pursuit this week....one week on, one week off, maybe that will keep him wondering, do you suppose? I havent sent him any notes or cards this week....may or may not...Today is his day here, over in other building with OW....always a hard day for me....however, today I'm going to a lunch hour marketing network meeting....I've given a lot of that stuff up over the last 6 or 8 months, and I'm going today just to go.....let him sit over there with OW....
I don't know, as I think about it, I feel H is still emotionally connected to the b---h.
